Helping Little Ones Learn: A Lesson in Patience for Mom Too

Today, I found myself sitting in the bonus room with my younger two, working through their math and reading practice. On the surface, it’s simple—counting, sounding out words, reading short sentences. But in reality, it’s a moment that requires so much more from me than just helping them check the right answer.

As I guided them, I noticed how easy it was to want to rush. To say, “Come on, you know this,” or to glance at the clock and think about the laundry, dinner, or even that nap on the couch I was hoping for. But then I reminded myself: this is new to them. What feels basic and second nature to me is something they are still learning, step by step.

That’s when I realized-that even though this is round 2 of raising elementary school aged children, these moments aren’t just about teaching math or reading. They’re about me practicing patience, being attentive, and choosing to be present. My children don’t just need the answer; they need encouragement, eye contact, and reassurance that it’s okay to pause, try again, and celebrate small wins.

And honestly? I need the reminder too. That growth takes time. That it’s okay to slow down. That while relaxing is important, so is this—being there as they grow into confident learners. We made the time to slow down a bit the first time around, especially with our first child, but as our family has grown, time has truly become more of a precious commodity.

So, the next time I’m tempted to rush through the flashcards or breeze past the stumbling through a sentence, I’ll remember: this isn’t just practice for them—it’s practice for me, too.